“Love the Coopers” is a movie that does solve a lot of the characters’ problems by the conclusion but, boy, do they have problems! Sam and Charlotte (John Goodman and Diane Keaton) have been married for years and have never taken the trip to Africa that Sam wants to take, mainly due to raising a family. They are getting together with their adult kids at Christmas, but they don’t want to tell their kids they plan to get a divorce after the holidays. Their one daughter, Eleanor (Olivia Wilde), is dating a married man but meets a man named Joe (Jake Lacy) while traveling home, a man with whom she connects. She is a liberal and he is a staunch Republican, and they go back and forth over their views, despite the fact there is a spark between them. The other daughter, Emma (Marisa Tomei), lives alone and is overly sensitive. Oh, and there’s a running joke about a little girl who calls people a name, which is a slang word for male genitalia.
When the entire family finally sits down for Christmas dinner, Joe offers to pray, and as he prays for this wonderful, “loving” family, one of the members lets loose with a profanity. As one person said to me following the film screening, “What a depressing Christmas movie!” And that pretty much sums it up. Other sub plots fit this “depressing” category, but I won’t belabor the point. This family is dysfunctional with a capital “D!” They love to quarrel. The content is very strong, too, with the use of strong language, innuendos, and even a sexual joke about God that many will find totally distasteful. Avoid this one like busy malls at Christmas time. No Dove Seal for this movie.