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Love the Coopers

When four generations of the Cooper clan come together for their annual Christmas Eve celebration, a series of unexpected visitors and unlikely events turn the night upside down, leading them all toward a surprising rediscovery of family bonds and the spirit of the holiday.
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Dove Review

“Love the Coopers” is a movie that does solve a lot of the characters’ problems by the conclusion but, boy, do they have problems! Sam and Charlotte (John Goodman and Diane Keaton) have been married for years and have never taken the trip to Africa that Sam wants to take, mainly due to raising a family. They are getting together with their adult kids at Christmas, but they don’t want to tell their kids they plan to get a divorce after the holidays. Their one daughter, Eleanor (Olivia Wilde), is dating a married man but meets a man named Joe (Jake Lacy) while traveling home, a man with whom she connects. She is a liberal and he is a staunch Republican, and they go back and forth over their views, despite the fact there is a spark between them. The other daughter, Emma (Marisa Tomei), lives alone and is overly sensitive. Oh, and there’s a running joke about a little girl who calls people a name, which is a slang word for male genitalia.

When the entire family finally sits down for Christmas dinner, Joe offers to pray, and as he prays for this wonderful, “loving” family, one of the members lets loose with a profanity. As one person said to me following the film screening, “What a depressing Christmas movie!” And that pretty much sums it up. Other sub plots fit this “depressing” category, but I won’t belabor the point. This family is dysfunctional with a capital “D!” They love to quarrel. The content is very strong, too, with the use of strong language, innuendos, and even a sexual joke about God that many will find totally distasteful. Avoid this one like busy malls at Christmas time. No Dove Seal for this movie.

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A fight and punching out a guy, which is enacted in a fantasy sequence.


Couple kisses in a few scenes; a teen couple kisses passionately, including open-mouthed, overdone French kissing, which is apparently supposed to draw laughs; a woman states she is dating a married man; a woman counsels a gay police officer; a joke about God having an orgasm that many will find distasteful; a husband and wife kiss passionately in front of everyone; a couple talks of having sex when they were back in high school.


GD-3; G/OG-17; For Go*'s Sake-2; JC-1; H-2; Go to H-1; D-2; BS-1; Several uses of slang for male genitalia (by a young girl)-1; Slang for female genitalia-1; Pus Face-1; Shut up-1


A fight and punching out a guy, which is enacted in a fantasy sequence.


Drinking in several scenes, including wine, beer and a martini; a photo of a man with a cigarette in his mouth.


Cleavage; a woman's dress skirt comes up in the back a bit as she kisses her husband; a man in boxers.


Political disagreements and negative comments about Republicans and God; a woman states she doesn't believe in God but later tells a man that his faith looks "hot" on him; arguments and tension between characters; a woman steals earrings in a store but is caught; the mention of a "white" lie; a scar is visible on a young woman's wrist where she apparently once cut herself.

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